“Time heals all wounds.” I know we’ve all heard this before. But is it really true? Is there really some secret formula to not feeling wounded?
An older couple attended a candle vigil I hosted in Illinois last year. They had a miscarriage 40+ years ago and came to remember their baby girl. They reiterated to me that while you’ll always miss your child, you can cling to one another with God as the foundation and pull through. To them I say thank you for encouraging me by showing how much you still love your baby girl, that it’s okay to grieve this kind of loss and that she should be remembered no matter how long it’s been.
I truly believe that you can get to a place that you are not breaking down every time you pass the baby section at a store but you will always think about your baby. Don’t let anyone tell you to “get over it.” Always remember your baby because they’re worth remembering!